Open Question: This is a good thing that I’m doing right?

I do not want my friends / roommates, and his brother so much stress? My roommate said that she found herself less to say this because whenever she did not, I told her to stop, it does not for her good health. That it will not make any better either. If there is anything it just made things worse. You agree? In addition, I have 17-year-old brother with type 1 diabetes and wheneverh stressed that he turned to pot. Is not everyone thinks this is me?